A story about Love

Hello!

This time im going to tell a story about Love, which is what i believe the strongest power there is in the world. It is the only force that can change a situation or even the whole world for the better.
Love cannot be predicted it cannot be forced nor can it be made by human hands, Love will just happen.
I remember as a little child, all the girls I grew with knew how many children they wanted to have when they grew up, how their husbands would look like, what kind of mother they would be.
Now I on the other hand thought how can you make such a prediction. Having children is not something you decide on your own you cannot force a person to love you so much  that they would want to have children.
We all grow up (at least many of us) with this fairytale kind of Love. Yet this is quit contradictive in our way of living. Our life's now are not romantic they are not fairytale like they are cold and hard and most of the time revolve around money.
This is how we are all suppose to spend our lifes: finish secondary school,go to college/university,make a career, find a husband, get children and live happily ever after.
Love in my opinion cannot be expected nor predicted. there is no recipe for happiness and not everybody is made for this kind of lifestyle. I know alot of women who have lived such a life. They are either single mother's in their midlifecrisis or they have never had children and live alone.
I also believe that the age for getting children is not a sort of marker that says from this age you will live a happy life with your child. Some people are older when they get their children but that doesnt mean that they are happier in the end. It is true the older you are the less financial problems you'll have if you lived you're life according to plans. My Best friend became a mother at 19. she is a single mom and faces problems on a daily basis. She realises that she is a mother and cannot do the "normal"things which other young adults do, yet why should she not be happy. she has a beautiful baby daughter who keeps smiling up towards her mother. reminding her mother that she has brought something beautiful in the world that she has to care for. A a bond of Love which will never be broken.

Love is a power we cannot grasp  It hides until it decided to show up. Love will not appear with money nor will it be pushed away with money . Love is the most beautiful thing in the world which binds people together. Love is trust and forgiveness. The more we Love in this world we can change it and make it better.

- Mitzi




Hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love; this is the eternal rule.
 '- Buddha